This is my attempt at healing, at venting, at reaching out and getting feedback. I am a smart, thoughtful human being whose world has recently been rocked by infidelity. What do I do? How do I stop the obsessing? The sad, depressed thoughts? How do I get better? I am hoping this can be a start, and maybe along the way, I can help and be helped by those of you out there who are, or have found themselves in the past, in the same very rocky, leaky, sinking boat.